I know what it feels like to disappear in a relationship.

There was a time when I was confident, decisive, and knew exactly who I was.
And then… I didn’t.

Years in a toxic relationship stripped away the real me. I found myself walking on eggshells, silencing my needs, and waiting for him to change. I felt invisible. Unworthy. Lost.

The day I left, I promised myself: I will come back to me.

That promise became my mission. Over the past 10 years, I’ve guided more than 500 women (and couples) through that same journey of rediscovering themselves — and transforming their relationships along the way.

Today, as a bestselling author and international speaker, I’m here to show you how to stop abandoning yourself and start living — and loving — on your terms.

Does this sound familiar?

• You’ve tried talking, compromising, keeping the peace… but nothing changes.
• You feel invisible, guilty for wanting more, or trapped in old patterns.
• You keep hoping your partner will change — while you keep losing pieces of yourself.

Here’s the truth: it’s not your fault. But it is your choice to stay stuck… or to start something different.

What if love didn’t feel so heavy anymore?

Imagine waking up in the morning without that knot in your stomach.
No more bracing yourself for their mood. No more second-guessing every word.

You open your eyes and instead of the weight of walking on eggshells, you feel light. Free. You breathe deeply — because for the first time in years, you’re not carrying the whole relationship on your back.

You speak your truth without rehearsing it ten times in your head. And instead of guilt, you feel proud. Steady. Heard.

You catch your reflection in the mirror and you actually like the woman looking back at you. She’s grounded in her body. She knows what she wants. And she’s not apologizing for it anymore.

At night, you reach for your partner — not out of pressure, not out of habit, but because intimacy feels safe again. Because you feel safe again.

This isn’t a fantasy. This is what happens when you stop abandoning yourself… and start choosing you.

And it starts with the first step: the Self-Rescue Blueprint.

This transformation isn’t just possible — it’s happening.

The future I just described? It’s not wishful thinking. It’s real. I’ve seen it again and again — women who felt invisible, unheard, and exhausted rediscovering their strength, their voice, their joy.

Over the past 10+ years, I’ve guided more than 500 clients through this shift. I’ve seen marriages rebuilt, intimacy reignited, and women finally feel at home in their own skin again.

That’s why I know this works. Because it’s not theory. It’s lived experience — mine, and theirs.

When was the last time you truly felt like you in your relationship?

Maybe you can’t remember. Maybe you’ve been holding it all together for so long — biting your tongue, keeping the peace, giving more than you get — that you’ve forgotten what it feels like to be loved as yourself.

That’s exactly why I created BACK TO ME.

It’s not another relationship quick fix. It’s not about teaching you tricks to manage their moods. This is about something bigger:
 Coming home to yourself.
 Reclaiming the voice you silenced.
 Building intimacy that doesn’t cost you your identity.

BACK TO ME is where women stop settling. Where they trade exhaustion and self-doubt for confidence, clarity, and connection — first with themselves, then with their partner.

Inside, you’ll find a step-by-step path to:

• Speak your truth without the guilt hangover.
• Feel safe and alive in your body again.
• Rebuild closeness without losing yourself in the process.
• and so so much more...

And here’s the best part: you don’t have to do it alone anymore. I’ll walk beside you, every step.

This is the moment where everything shifts.
The only question is: are you ready to come back to you?

You can keep waiting for things to change.
Or you can take the first step back to yourself — today.