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It's never too late, and you're never too old for deep, intense, and exhilarating intimacy!
Your desire for emotional and physical intimacy doesn't go away; it can just become dormant when it isn't nurtured.
No matter you're age:
You are not alone!
I remember how intensely I wanted my partner to want me, to feel passion and experience physical intimacy on more than just the "missionary level."
I lost myself in a relationship where I settled for what was given to me, leaving behind what I wanted, desired, and needed.
We never talked about our feelings, thoughts, or goals, failing to share our daily experiences.
We were together, yet all alone.
To him, I was "a given," and I would try in vain to "fix" him so he would finally SEE ME.
I was at a point where I didn't want to go home, knowing he would be there. I was relieved on the days he would be out late.
Despite it all, I stayed, pleading, pleasing, and trying to accommodate.
Eventually, after years of settling for being second best, I left.
I risked EVERYTHING - my finances, shame, and being alone for the rest of my life...and oh boy, was I in for a surprise!
Taking time to get my "mojo" back, to love myself for who I was, and to heal from past disappointments took months. But I finally got to the point where I absolutely loved being by myself, embracing life, and handling challenges with ease. I had never been so happy!
I felt fulfilled and satisfied, like a delicious, mouth-watering sundae!
And then came "Mr. Big." The love of my life swept in, and luckily, I could receive his love and return it unconditionally. He was the cherry on top of my sundae.
Out of respect and privacy, I won't go into all of the details of our relationship; just know we've had our ups and downs. Yet, after all these years together, we haven't lost our desire, passion and love for one another, and our intimacy continues to grow and get better with time!
Anna Thellmann,
Intimacy Expert &
Relationship Advisor
I used to believe that I need amazing, mind-blowing, vivid phantasies to get turned on and have an orgasm during masturbation.
Imagine the preparation going into planning it - what phantasies? Where will it happen? Who will be the lead?
I was so focused on my phantasies that I would panic and tense up if a thought would come up that wasn’t “beneficial” for the situation, like the washing or the dishes…
Yes, I did have orgasms but it wasn’t the joyous experience that I thought it would or should be.
Eventually, one cloudy Tuesday morning, getting out of the shower, I thought to myself “what if my tools work in the bedroom as well?”.
I went down to business and used two of my NLP tools (which I teach you in my INTIMACY ACCELERATION coaching programme) before I started masturbating.
I was blown away! The climax I experienced was phenomenal. No phantasy. No tension. No panic. My body was tingling and my mind was high.
I got up and KNEW I had to share with the world, with you - that you can have your orgasm back because it’s all in your mind and you have the control over it!
I believe I can have the fulfilled sexual and intimate relationship I desire BECAUSE I AM IN CONTROL OF MY THOUGHTS.
And that is what I teach you!
You are not the victim of your emotions or the situation you are in.
You are the strong, resilient and powerful being.
You deserve to feel wanted.
You deserve to explore your desires.
In case you want to know more about me, here are some personal facts:
I am a certified coach and NLP practitioner with over 8 years experience and a background in HR Management, Learning & Development, Teaching, and Training.
In 2021, I’ve set up my own business here in China where I do what I love - coach, educate, mentor, train, and consult.
In Shenyang, I support two international hospitals as Relationship Coach and Consultant for the English and German speaking community.
Since summer 2023, I volunteer as a Relationship Coach/Mentor for the 2nd biggest refugee camp in Uganda.
Additionally, I help my clients through the INTIMACY ACCELERATION coaching programme. So far, no client has left the programme without having accelerated the emotional and physical intimacy in their relationship - I’m very happy about this rate and super proud of my clients who have believed in themselves and now face challenges calm, collected, and positive.
My passion for intimacy, for speaking about the “unspeakable”, has lead me to become an expert in my field where I coach, educate, inspire, mentor, and encourage others to focus on accepting themselves first.
I believe, if you don’t show yourself acceptance, compassion and trust first you will not be able to receive it from others long-term and without expectations; which often don’t get met, leading to disappointment, rejection and neglect.
VISION:
For every woman to come as she is, embracing to truly be herself, unapologetically. To embrace her imperfections and discover her true strengths, and recognise her ability to transform her life and relationships, unleashing a wave of positive change. To believe in the ease with which she can create a fulfilling and joyful relationship while prioritising her own well-being.
MISSION:
Our mission is to welcome every woman as she is and help her to love and accept who she truly is by offering our knowledge, support, and understanding.
VALUES:
Come as you are: be who you are in that moment.
Laugh a lot: have fun on the journey.
No box allowed: no judgment, no pity, no shaming.
You are the most important person: it’s your life and you should live it the way you want - however that looks like for you.
Do you want more resources, courses and live classes to improve your relationship?
-> connect with me on Insight Timer.
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You will receive guidance to empower you to foster a deeper connection, navigate challenges, and cultivate a relationship that thrives
Do you want to accelerate the intimate relationship with your partner?
Find out how you can work with me.
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